
Why, why, oh why do people think it's OK to ask...
"so how come YOU haven't gotten married yet?"
I'll be honest. I think it's incredibly rude and kinda hurtful. I was asked said question today by someone who will remain nameless while I was out and around town shopping. I don't believe that they intended their question to be mean. I really don't. But honestly!
We were talking about my family and when I told said person that it was my sister and not me that was married and she was the one that had a child, well that's when the lovely question arose.
I answered with the only thing I could think of (being taken slightly off guard)...
"well, I guess that just isn't God's plan for me at this moment."
After thinking about it for several hours now, I, of course, came up with better replies like...
"Wow, that was kinda mean. Don't know how to answer that."
"That is a great question. Why don't you tell me 'cause obviously I haven't figured it out yet."
"Well, if you must know, I was in love with the perfect man, but he was tragically killed 2 months before our wedding." (this isn't true, but heck, if I haven't thought about saying it anyway to see how they would back peddle out of it.)
"Guess I'm not pretty enough. Do you think I'm pretty?"
Burst into tears and walk away saying "I'm sorry, I have to go."
Hit the offender across the face and laugh while screaming "how dare you!"
"I'm 'saving myself for Luke Perry'." (quoted from one of my favorite movies)
"I tend to only meet creepy guys at the bars I go to and I just don't want to settle down with someone who is constantly plastered." (sarcastic, readers. I'm being sarcastic.)
"You mean I SHOULD be married now? Is 30 that old?"
"I think God hates me." (man, oh man I wish I had the courage to say that just see their reaction.)
So to all of you who love to ask single people this question (and I'm not saying it's any of you fine, lovely readers), or any question similar to it, know this....WE DON'T LIKE IT! Most of us are happy with our lives. Most of us would like to be married one day, if that's what God wants, but we are OK with being patient right now. And most of the time, we are much more OK with it than you are for some reason.
Random Order....
#3 New Friends - Just Plain Sweet
#5 On The Bay - I love the way the people are the shadow
#2 Friends - Could be in a Gap
#4 Chuck diptych - I just love Chuck
#1 Little Green Bird - I want this to hang in my girls bathroom! I love the color!